{"id":21195,"date":"2024-05-08T10:05:52","date_gmt":"2024-05-08T09:05:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/?p=21195"},"modified":"2026-05-07T12:54:10","modified_gmt":"2026-05-07T11:54:10","slug":"from-indecision-to-choice","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/en\/from-indecision-to-choice\/","title":{"rendered":"From Indecision To Choice"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-inside-us-a-clever-lawyer-is-winning-a-bad-case-with-sentimental-appeals-assagioli-on-making-right-decisions-the-rationalisations-we-mistake-for-our-own-voice-and-the-harder-discipline-of-choosing-from-somewhere-truer\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Inside us, a clever lawyer is winning a bad case with sentimental appeals. Assagioli on making right decisions, the rationalisations we mistake for our own voice, and the harder discipline of choosing from somewhere truer<\/span><\/span><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><a href=\"https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Indecision-to-decision.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"536\" src=\"https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Indecision-to-decision-1024x536.png\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-21196\" srcset=\"https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Indecision-to-decision-1024x536.png 1024w, https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Indecision-to-decision-300x157.png 300w, https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Indecision-to-decision-768x402.png 768w, https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Indecision-to-decision-400x209.png 400w, https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Indecision-to-decision-419x219.png 419w, https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2024\/03\/Indecision-to-decision.png 1200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/a><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">By <strong>Roberto Assagioli<\/strong><br>Assagioli Archives, Florence, Doc. #24218<br>Original title: <em>Dell&#8217;indecisione alla Scelta<\/em> <a href=\"#_ftn1\" id=\"_ftnref1\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[1]<\/span><\/span><\/a><br>Translated and edited with notes by Jan Kuniholm <a href=\"#_ftn2\" id=\"_ftnref2\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[2]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Editorial Note<\/strong><br>The abstract and contextual subtitle in this online edition have been added by the editor, Kenneth Sorensen, to support readability, navigation, and archival consistency. The original wording has not been altered. Per the Assagioli Archives note, much of this material was later developed in the chapter on &#8220;Choice and Decision&#8221; in <em>The Act of Will<\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"h-abstract\">Abstract<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In this essay, Roberto Assagioli reframes indecision as a sign of inner evolution rather than weakness. The ordinary person, driven by a single dominant tendency, rarely hesitates; the fully integrated person hears the clear voice of the Soul. Hesitation lives in between, where new values awaken and the old motives no longer suffice. He works carefully through the obstacles to making right decisions: the hidden tendencies that smuggle themselves into our reasoning disguised as virtue, the patient practice of weighing, and the cultivation of spiritual intuition. He closes by naming two false escapes from the responsibility of choice: divination, and asking others to decide for us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Indecision is regarded as a flaw that can seriously impair a person&#8217;s effectiveness, and it really is; but on the other hand it also often denotes a fairly advanced stage of higher evolution.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">The common man \u2014 who is moved to action by his instincts, passions and personal desires \u2014 is in fact rarely indecisive. There are usually in him one or a few preponderant tendencies which determine and impel him, and with which he identifies himself. Thus we have well-characterized types of people such as the sensual, the ambitious, the stingy, the passionate, etc.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">We do sometimes find among ordinary people some who are doubtful and irresolute. But in such cases these are mostly people who are not quite normal; that is, who are \u201cdissociated\u201d or suffering from neuro-psychic symptoms, and particularly from \u201cpsychasthenia.\u201d <\/span><\/span><a id=\"_ftnref3\" href=\"#_ftn3\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[3]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> In these cases, in which people are suffering torments, there is a special kind of psychic dissociation (but different from that of schizophrenia), and a lowering of &#8220;psychic potential,&#8221; which results in a diminished &#8220;sense of reality,&#8221; that is necessary for energetic and purposeful action. Such cases require special understanding and special treatments, which I cannot dwell on here.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">However, one should not confuse irresolute people with changeable persons, who may even show some similarities on superficial observation, since both groups are ineffective and squander their energies without accomplishing anything. Indeed, changeable people are in a sense the opposite of those who are indecisive, for they thoughtlessly surrender to every internal impulse or external suggestion. On the other hand, people of high inner development are generally firm and resolute, because they have irrevocably committed to spiritual principles and values, and because they hear the clear and imperious voice of their Soul.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"YouTube video player\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/E97saZXdOMs?si=54jO28iNcyzvJVG6\" width=\"100%\" height=\"400\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><span data-mce-type=\"bookmark\" style=\"display: inline-block; width: 0px; overflow: hidden; line-height: 0;\" class=\"mce_SELRES_start\">\ufeff<\/span><\/iframe><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">There is, on the other hand, an intermediate stage, of those in whom spiritual consciousness <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">begins<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> to awaken, in which new values <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u200b\u200bbegin<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> to appear, and higher goals than the ordinary ones are revealed. These people thus become aware that there are different levels of life in them; that there are impulses, motives and calls of a different nature in them, and that therefore they can no longer &#8220;let themselves live,&#8221; and passively yield to the strongest inner drive. They find themselves in the situation symbolized in the myth of Hercules at the crossroads, <\/span><\/span><a id=\"_ftnref4\" href=\"#_ftn4\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[4]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> of the Sixth Arcanum of Hermes (the two Ways &#8211; the Trial) <\/span><\/span><a id=\"_ftnref5\" href=\"#_ftn5\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[5]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> which is developed in a broad and profound way in the Bhagavad Gita. <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">They must choose.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">At this point, the problem arises: <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">How to decide correctly<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> ? Indeed, while in a number of cases the choice between evil and good, between selfish and selfless motives, seems obvious, in a great many cases it is not. There are two main reasons for the difficulty of deciding correctly. The first consists in the difficulty of the problem at hand; the second is because <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">we do not actually know ourselves<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> .<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Let us first examine this second cause of difficulty. Modern psychology \u2014 which is rediscovering what ancient wisdom knew well and taught to spiritual aspirants and disciples, and expounding it in contemporary language \u2014 has shown that we are habitually aware of only a small part of ourselves, <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">the surface<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> of our psyche. There are vast regions in us in which instincts, tendencies, feelings and thoughts arise which we ignore, but which exert a powerful influence on our conduct. This influence is all the more powerful because it is unnoticed and masked. In fact if certain tendencies and motives openly emerged at the surface of consciousness, they would undoubtedly be seen as low, unworthy and inappropriate, and therefore would be condemned and discarded.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">But in order to escape such moral \u201ccensure,\u201d [such tendencies and motives] often conceal themselves under plausible pretexts; they cloak themselves in noble or harmless appearances, and thus manage to smuggle themselves in! They are just like those clever lawyers who win a bad case by the use of specious sophistry or sentimental appeals. How often our vanity hides in the guise of goodness, in &#8220;doing good.&#8221; How often we defend our selfish interests and privileges by deluding ourselves that we are upholding &#8220;justice.&#8221; How often we say and believe that we &#8220;love&#8221; our children, while in reality we are moved by possessive attachment. How often we believe that we &#8220;think for ourselves,&#8221; while we are actually dominated by prejudices or tendencies of family, nation or race; that is, by what Jung calls &#8220;the collective unconscious.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">One of the first things everyone should learn is the <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">true<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> nature of what directs them and determines [their behavior and attitudes]. For many, it is one side of their personality as a whole. For some, a few, it is the Soul. Others may be driven by a sense of inferiority, and the reaction to it which manifests as intentional defensive activity. For still others the motives may be life circumstances, collective mentality, popular opinion, and finally the influence of the people with whom they are connected.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">We must always keep in mind this continuous tendency towards self-delusion (which in psychoanalytic language is called \u201crationalization;\u201d that is, pseudo-rational justification of unreasonable tendencies). To free ourselves of this one first needs a good knowledge of \u201cdepth psychology;\u201d that is, psychoanalysis in its broadest and most balanced aspects, stripped of exaggerations and theoretical superstructures, and integrated with the general psychology of humanity and &#8220;height psychology;&#8221; that is, a study of the superconscious. We need continuous and careful inner alertness, moral courage, and complete sincerity towards oneself. In this way we eliminate countless causes of error in decision-making, with their consequences, which can be so harmful to ourselves and others.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><p><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">But, as has been mentioned, even this &#8220;clarification&#8221; does not always prove sufficient to make good decisions. There are complicated situations in which we remain perplexed even if we eliminate all unworthy motives. In such cases, it is necessary to begin by making maximum use of the mind, by making use of its faculties of discrimination and reflection, by considering and <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">thinking<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> . The etymology of the latter word is significant in this regard: \u201cthinking\u201d is derived from \u201cweighing,\u201d <\/span><\/span><a id=\"_ftnref6\" href=\"#_ftn6\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[6]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> that is, \u201cto put on the scales.\u201d In doing so, an initial period of perplexity and indecision is followed by a wise choice, much preferable to those choices that are made quickly but impulsively and unreflectively.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>(&#8220;This distinction between reaction and conscious decision is at the heart of the question of <a href=\"https:\/\/kennethsorensen.dk\/en\/what-is-free-will\/\">free will in psychosynthesis<\/a>.&#8221; Ed.)<\/p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Sometimes, however, even these gifts are not enough to make a decision. There are cases in which essential data and elements for judgment are missing, or where the pros and cons of various alternatives seem to balance each other. In these cases it is necessary to appeal to a higher faculty: <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">spiritual intuition<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> . I have called it <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">spiritual<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> intuition to distinguish it from \u201cpsychic impressions\u201d arising from telepathic sensitivity of an instinctive and emotional kind, which are commonly called \u201cintuitions.\u201d<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">True intuition is a faculty of the Soul. Therefore, for it to be active, it is necessary for the personal consciousness to be in rapport with the Soul to some degree, and the mind must be illuminated by the light of the Soul. In other words, [it is necessary] that a certain degree of spiritual psychosynthesis be achieved, at least momentarily. Such conscious connection between the personality and the Soul may occur spontaneously \u2014 especially in times of danger and in which a person is faced with serious decisions \u2014 but normally it is the result of the practice of <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">meditation<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> . An examination of meditation methods would require a lengthy discussion. Those who wish to study them in depth can very usefully study Patanjali&#8217;s <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Yoga Sutras<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> , which have been extensively commented on by Alice A. Bailey. <\/span><\/span><a id=\"_ftnref7\" href=\"#_ftn7\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[7]<\/span><\/span><\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Here I will only say that the practice of meditation includes the following stages: 1) <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Aspiration<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> (of the feeling); 2) <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Concentration<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> (of the mind); 3) <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Meditation<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> itself, or activity of the mind (reflection on a given theme); 4) <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Contemplation;<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> 5) <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Enlightenment<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> (intuitive); and 6) <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Inspiration<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> .<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">For those who are unwilling to engage in the difficult discipline of methodical meditation, which is also a powerful means of spiritual development, a simple method may be suggested, which is within the reach of any person of good will, and which often yields very good, indeed sometimes surprising, results. Here are its stages:<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">A brief recollection, in which one tries to quiet the emotions and the mind, and to achieve a relative state of inner &#8220;silence.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Formulate clearly and precisely (even in writing) the problem to be solved in the form of a &#8220;question,&#8221; as if one wanted to ask a wise and loving person in whom one had full confidence. Depending on one&#8217;s spiritual beliefs, one may address the question to one&#8217;s Soul, or to a Higher Being for whom one has devotion such as Christ, or directly to God, or to Life.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Set the problem aside, &#8220;abandoning&#8221; and entrusting it, and attend to something else. Such an &#8220;interlude&#8221; or pause is necessary to allow time for the mysterious process leading to the concluding stage to take place.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Reception, recognition and right interpretation of the \u201canswer.\u201d This is the most delicate point and one that requires practice and experience. The &#8220;answer&#8221; can in fact come in two ways: direct or inner, and indirect or outer.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">The former can take different forms: a sudden clear mental &#8220;vision,&#8221; like a &#8220;flash&#8221; of light, accompanied by a sense of security. Or a gradual clarification of the situation, which was previously uncertain and confused before the inner eye, as when the dissipation of the fog in the mountains lets the landscape below gradually appear. Or again, a strong inner urge to follow a given path for no apparent reason. Sometimes the &#8220;answer&#8221; may present itself to the mind in symbolic form.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">The indirect ways \u2014 which sometimes give the distinct and surprising impression of being the result of conscious and intelligent forces \u2014 are of various kinds: a person who may even be unaware of our problem may say something that contains a clear indication for us. We may read the expected answer, or at least the indication of a way to find it, in a passage from a book, or an article from a magazine or newspaper that comes to our attention &#8220;by chance.&#8221; An event may occur, or there is a spontaneous change in the situation which brings the decision with it or points to it, or makes it easier to choose. In some cases then, it is like closing all doors but one.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">The use of this method is not without its difficulties. It can cause errors which must be taken into account. Recognition of the &#8220;response&#8221; requires inner alertness, sensitivity, readiness and, above all, discrimination, so as not to mistake an impulse or suggestion of the personal or collective unconscious for a genuine direction, against which I have already warned. It must therefore be kept well in mind that the method under consideration cannot and should not be a convenient escape from the effort and responsibility of making conscious decisions, but only an <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">aid<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> to doing so.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">This is true also, and <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">especially<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> so, of two other ways in which men have sought [direction] and often try to evade the effort and responsibility of choice: namely, divinatory practices, and resorting to the advice and guidance of others.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Divining practices have been very widespread in all times and places, thus showing that they correspond to a very strong tendency of the human soul. This tendency has two elements or &#8220;components:&#8221; first, the desire to know one&#8217;s future destiny, and that of receiving guidance and rules as to what to do, in order to save oneself the trouble and responsibility of choosing; and then, to have the presumed assurance that one will not make a mistake. To these personal, and for the most part selfish, motives can be added the dark sense that there is a part of us that <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">knows<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> \u2014 that knows much more than our waking consciousness. This supernormal part of us, can, within certain limits, even read in the &#8220;book of the future,&#8221; as shown by the phenomena of &#8220;premonition.&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">The reality of these phenomena has been highlighted well by Dr. Osty, <\/span><\/span><a id=\"_ftnref8\" href=\"#_ftn8\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[8]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> who has devoted a book to them that is an admirable example of objective, scientific and dispassionate research: <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">La connaissance supra-normale<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> . <\/span><\/span><a id=\"_ftnref9\" href=\"#_ftn9\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[9]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> But \u2014 as Dr. Osty pointed out \u2014 there are so many and so frequent causes of error that it would be dangerous to rely on such phenomena to make serious decisions in one&#8217;s life. And if errors are easy even in experiments conducted with caution and scientific method, all the more numerous they will be [likely] in the countless popular divinatory practices.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Finally, I will say a few words about the second \u2014 much used \u2014 way of deciding, or, more exactly. . . of <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">not<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> deciding for oneself: that of seeking advice from others.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">This too has serious drawbacks, at least as it is generally used, both by those who ask for advice and those who give it. The phrase with which advice is often asked, namely, \u201cWhat should I do?\u201d already clearly shows a desire to lean on others, to seek external authority in order to avoid the effort and responsibility of an autonomous decision. And what is worse is that the ease with which advice is sought in this way is matched by an equal, indeed greater, ease \u2014 it would be more appropriate to call it &#8220;facility&#8221; \u2014 with which advice is given to those who ask for it. . . and even to those who do not ask. It is not difficult to do a psychoanalysis of the latter tendency: it is an expression (along with the related one of criticism) of the fundamental tendency towards self-assertion and domination over others.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">In the act of advising, there is a pleasurable sense of superiority over those being advised, which flatters our vanity and feeds our self-love. Unfortunately, this tends to blind us to the enormous presumption we display in advising lightly without possessing the necessary elements of judgment (which would almost always require patient investigation and careful consideration) and the consequent grave responsibility we assume. To the facile mentors, to the improvised pilots who offer to guide our ship over the prolific waters of life, it is appropriate to respond with the following joking phrase, which in its apparent haughtiness, however, contains a fund of wisdom, and also of humility: &#8220;Don&#8217;t give me advice; I can make mistakes by myself!&#8221;<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">If after attempting the use of all the above means, we still feel perplexed, we must have, or arouse in ourselves, <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">the courage to risk making mistakes<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> . An error in good faith, made with pure motives, not only does not bring us down (which would be a worse evil), but can indeed be a valuable lesson, a fruitful experience, when it is sincerely acknowledged afterwards and due account is taken of it in the future.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">In order to avoid misunderstandings, and to complete our examination of this problem, it should be made clear that refraining from asking others what should be done, and not blindly following what they say to do, does not mean that we should never expose our problems to others, nor that we should not consult about them with competent people. On the contrary, this can be quite appropriate, and can effectively help us find the solution we seek. The mere fact of &#8220;expressing&#8221; perplexities and doubts, of &#8220;objectifying&#8221; the problem, of &#8220;distancing&#8221; it, often has a clarifying effect. Sometimes indeed it is enough to make the solution appear.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">But the \u201ccompetent\u201d aspect of the [person we consult] must be an active function, and must not fall into the drawbacks mentioned above. That function consists, first, in helping to state the problem correctly; to set it out clearly, in its proper terms, eliminating mental confusions, agitations and emotional exaggerations; and to frame it within a larger context in which it acquires its proper perspective and reveals its real connections. Secondly, it consists in bringing out the human and spiritual principles that must be taken into account in order to decide correctly; to clarify the motives that drive us in various directions; and finally to illuminate the near-term and long-term consequences \u2014 for us and for others \u2014 that the various ways of acting would have.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">From such an examination \u2014 done in collaboration between the &#8220;consulted&#8221; and the &#8220;consultant&#8221; \u2014 the best solution not infrequently leaps out, without the slightest use of &#8220;authority&#8221; on the part of the latter, and fully safeguarding the autonomy, responsibility and merit of those involved.<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity\"\/>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a id=\"_ftn1\" href=\"#_ftnref1\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[1]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> According to the Assagioli Archives, &#8220;Many of the contents in this article were later taken up in the chapter on &#8216;Choice and Decision&#8217; of the text <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">The Act of Will<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> .&#8221; <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">-Oath.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a id=\"_ftn2\" href=\"#_ftnref2\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[2]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> Editor&#8217;s interpolations are shown in [brackets]. <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">-Oath.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a id=\"_ftn3\" href=\"#_ftnref3\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[3]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> psychasthenia: a neurotic state characterized especially by phobias, obsessions, or compulsions that one knows are irrational. (Merriam-Webster) <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u2014Ed.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a id=\"_ftn4\" href=\"#_ftnref4\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[4]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> \u201cHercules at the Crossroads,\u201d also known as \u201cThe Choice of Hercules\u201d and \u201cThe Judgment of Hercules,\u201d is an ancient Greek <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Parable\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">parable<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> attributed to <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Prodicus\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Prodicus<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> and known from <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Xenophon\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Xenophon<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> . It concerns the young <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Heracles\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Heracles<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> \/ <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Hercules\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Hercules<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> who is offered a choice between <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Vice\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Vice<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> and <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Virtue\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Virtue<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> \u2014 a life of pleasure or one of hardship and honor. <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">-Oath.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a id=\"_ftn5\" href=\"#_ftnref5\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[5]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> Hermetic: of or relating to the mystical and alchemical writings or teachings arising in the first three centuries AD and attributed to <\/span><\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.merriam-webster.com\/dictionary\/Hermes%20Trismegistus\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">Hermes Trismegistus<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> . Arcana refers to specialized knowledge, language, or information accessible or possessed only by the initiate. Books by different modern authors have purportedly explained some of the foregoing. The &#8220;sixth arcanum&#8221; as used in Tarot is a representation of how a disciple must face specific temptations, and &#8220;indecision&#8221; is related to the sixth arcanum or law of Tarot. <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">-Oath.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a id=\"_ftn6\" href=\"#_ftnref6\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[6]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> \u201cthinking\u201d &#8211; <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">pensare<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> in Italian, is derived from <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">pesare<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> \u201cto weigh.\u201d <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u2014 Tr.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a id=\"_ftn7\" href=\"#_ftnref7\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[7]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> Published by Lucis Publishing Co. as <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">The Light of the Soul: Its Science and Effect: A Paraphrase of the Yoga Sutras of Patanjali<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> by Alice A. Bailey. <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">-Oath.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a id=\"_ftn8\" href=\"#_ftnref8\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[8]<\/span><\/span><\/a><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> Eug\u00e8ne Osty (1874-1938) was a French physician and psychical researcher. <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">-Oath.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a id=\"_ftn9\" href=\"#_ftnref9\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">[9] <\/span><\/span><\/a> <em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">La connaissance supra-normale <\/span><\/span><\/em><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">(Super-Normal Knowledge)<\/span><\/span><\/em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"> by Dr. Eugene Osty, Paris, Alcan, 1925. <\/span><\/span><em><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\"><span dir=\"auto\" style=\"vertical-align: inherit;\">\u2014Ed.<\/span><\/span><\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Inside us, a clever lawyer is winning a bad case with sentimental appeals. Assagioli on making right decisions, the rationalisations we mistake for our own voice, and the harder discipline of choosing from somewhere truer By Roberto AssagioliAssagioli Archives, Florence, Doc. #24218Original title: Dell&#8217;indecisione alla Scelta [1]Translated and edited with notes by Jan Kuniholm [2] [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":875,"featured_media":21196,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","footnotes":"","tve_updated_post":"","tve_custom_css":"","tve_user_custom_css":"","tve_globals":{},"tcb2_ready":0,"tcb_editor_enabled":0,"tve_landing_page":"","_tve_header":"","_tve_footer":""},"categories":[28],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-21195","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-psychosynthesis-and-the-will","entry","override","gs-1","gs-odd","gs-even","gs-featured-content-entry"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO Premium plugin v28.2 (Yoast SEO v28.2) - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-premium-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Making Right Decisions: Why Hesitation Is Not Weakness<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"Most of our reasons are not the real ones. 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